Tuesday, August 7, 2007

I can't believe how long it has been since I posted. The last month seems mostly like a blur. There are a few things/moments that stand out, but for the most part it seems like a hectic blur.

I was going to post last week, but every day brought a change, so I've been waiting for things to settle down some before I posted. Mrs. Debbi had a job interview in South Carolina July 28, and they offered her the job. So the whole saga (as far as my personal life goes) started last Monday. At that time, I was pretty much planning on going with the family up to South Carolina. Then Tuesday (through a series of conversations and events), Mrs. Debbi thought I should really consider staying in Jacksonville. Anna and James, Bethany's older sister and bro-in-law offered to let me live with them as long as needed until I could find a place of my own. Then Wednesday it was realized that they wouldn't be selling this house until next spring, so I could just stay here (along with the two oldest Dunlap boys, 20 and 19 respectively). Then Thursday, First Baptist Church of Jacksonville called about hiring Debbi there. If they stayed here, I wouldn't be getting a job and looking for an apartment. I would be homeschooling them. (I was actually filling out a job application when Debbi got the phone call. She told/encouraged me to wait to send it in until today.) Friday to Sunday saw no changes, as Debbi couldn't get in at First Baptist Jax until today. She did go in today though, and the verdict is that they're moving.

I'm mostly just relieved, honestly. Relieved that the saga is over. So now comes the figuring out what to do next. I have a job interview tomorrow at a vet. It's for a receptionist/assistant technician spot, which would be absolutely perfect for me. I'm excited about it, and have the experience that is needed, but we'll see how it goes.

In other news, I am kind of dating a guy here! Okay, no "kind of" to it whatsoever. Just to make the announcement without that sounded cocky to me though. We met off of eHarmony (how embarrassing for me to admit). I bought memberships for Bethany and me last year - part joke and part "let's do this weird, scary, and slightly embarrassing thing together." It has been a thoroughly underwhelming experience until I met Mike. He's 31, has a degree from a small Baptist college, speaks English (as opposed to MH), is a Christian, is very intelligent, loves animals (though he is a cat person - Daive and I are choosing not to hold that against him), and is extremely wholesome. I mean, extremely wholesome. A good guy to the core. Works in the office at FedEx Freight here in Jacksonville, doing billing. Has worked there 7 years. Has only ever bought cars with cash. He's been divorced. He's also from Ohio. The first real date we went on after meeting in person, he asked if I wanted to meet at the movie theater or have him pick me up. I told him I didn't care. And, just to share with you all a little about him, he said, "Well, why don't I come pick you up so I can meet Daive." We've been out on 6 dates. (He actually called me his girlfriend today, but I'm such an internal pessimist that I'm choosing to at least temporarily block that out, for fear he'll change his mind just about the time I get used to it.) I took him to a Korean restaurant in Jacksonville Friday night. He was very brave - agreed to go, sounded genuinely excited about it, and even let me order. Then after dinner we came back to the Dunlap house, where we sat around the next two or three hours playing games with the kids. And the fact that he can handle the organized chaos that this house can be...that's pretty big in his favor.

So there you go. That's my news. New guy. New job in the works. New apartment in the next some-odd months. But all very good changes.

Anyway, I guess that's enough for now. I'll be sure to let you know how the interview goes tomorrow! :)

3 comments:

Beth said...

Good to hear an update! Sounds like things might be settling down, as well as things ever settle down :) Be sure to post how the interview goes soon!

Val said...

I'm so glad that things are starting to even out for you. And I'm happy that the whole dating thing is working out for you, and I promise if you bring him here I'll be on my best behavior. I won't even nickname him. While he's here in town. Stay on this even keel and get the heck out of dodge.

Unknown said...

Hey Hunny! How is married life treatin ya??? Love the wedding pictures. When do I get to see the professional ones????